Bob Farina's Published Work

A NYC Italian-American Story

New York City in the 1950s – I was a product of America’s economic and societal transformations. My grandparents were Italian immigrants. I proudly anticipated being the first in line to attend college. My family created a pedestal of achievement for me – but after 18 years of being perched atop this pinnacle as the “favored son,” I was no longer supported by them. Relationships were severed and seemingly unbreakable ties now delineated my past life from the one I was about to create.

This is the account of my personal journey to survive and to thrive without my relatives. I discovered that as long as I was in a position to “Make just one someone happy…,” then indeed, I could be happy, too.

And I was.
And I am.

Some Can Change Us Forever

Fateful Outcomes is a character study of two brothers and a sister, who were raised in the same family yet so different. Clare, enamored with Leonardo di Vinci, obtains a license to fly a small single-engine plane. She was a Wharton School of Business graduate who was the smartest and brightest in the family and was destined to take over her father’s successful financial services firm. Peter, an Eagle Scout in his youth, a Teddy Roosevelt enthusiast and lover of the outdoors, was gifted in so many ways, as he rose in the ranks of the New York City Department of Parks. He had a natural ability to succeed at everything he pursued. Everyone wanted to be his friend. Ted, an abuser, and a narcissist was the oldest but struggled to measure up to his younger brother and sister, and ultimately committed the unthinkable!

Fateful Outcomes is a story about the three Collins siblings, the choices they faced, and the decisions they made that changed their lives forever.

A NYC Italian-American Story

New York City in the 1950s – I was a product of America’s economic and societal transformations. My grandparents were Italian immigrants. I proudly anticipated being the first in line to attend college. My family created a pedestal of achievement for me – but after 18 years of being perched atop this pinnacle as the “favored son,” I was no longer supported by them. Relationships were severed and seemingly unbreakable ties now delineated my past life from the one I was about to create.

This is the account of my personal journey to survive and to thrive without my relatives. I discovered that as long as I was in a position to “Make just one someone happy…,” then indeed, I could be happy, too.

And I was.
And I am.

Some Can Change Us Forever

Fateful Outcomes is a character study of two brothers and a sister, who were raised in the same family yet so different. Clare, enamored with Leonardo di Vinci, obtains a license to fly a small single-engine plane. She was a Wharton School of Business graduate who was the smartest and brightest in the family and was destined to take over her father’s successful financial services firm. Peter, an Eagle Scout in his youth, a Teddy Roosevelt enthusiast and lover of the outdoors, was gifted in so many ways, as he rose in the ranks of the New York City Department of Parks. He had a natural ability to succeed at everything he pursued. Everyone wanted to be his friend. Ted, an abuser, and a narcissist was the oldest but struggled to measure up to his younger brother and sister, and ultimately committed the unthinkable!

Fateful Outcomes is a story about the three Collins siblings, the choices they faced, and the decisions they made that changed their lives forever.

I loved The Donut and the Hole!

Bob Farina’s extensive research and attention to detail are amazing. His presentation of Will Harrington as an outstanding and gifted teacher was truly inspiring. My fondest desire would be to spend a term in Will’s American History class – to experience excellence in teaching methodology as well as to gain a new appreciation for the humanity of an outstanding teaching professional.

- Dr. Mary Ellen Freeley
Retired Superintendent of Schools and Associate Professor of Education at St. John's University

There is so much to love and enjoy about I Didn’t Always Like Calamari!

Not only is it fun and entertaining, it is an important and necessary body of work – as it tells the story of the times Bob has lived. Learning about his grandparents’ experiences as immigrants from Italy was especially meaningful to me, as I seek to understand today’s headlines related to the same subject, and why we must all think deeply about how difficult it is to make your way in a new country. It’s important we all know that struggle and appreciate how hard immigrants had to work back then (and perhaps now) to make new lives for themselves in a foreign place. Bob’s vivid and poignant stories about his family provided such a rich, detailed backdrop to that narrative for me. It is also a story about relationships – and what we can learn from them. What Bob went through with his parents is heartbreaking, but he pushed forward in the best way he could. If even one reader comes away feeling inspired to mend a broken relationship, then this book will surely prove to be an invaluable gift.

- Elizabeth Bush
Freelance Writer and Former Editor of The Daniel Island News